Dr. Blume's Article of the Month
Procrastination
by Ginger E. Blume, Ph.D.
The word “procrastination” sounds like a dirty word to some people. But,
who amongst us hasn’t done it on occasion? That’s understandable---we’ve
all put off doing some things we should be doing. Yet, there are some
people who are habitual procrastinators who’ve suffered from numerous
missed opportunities in their lives, such as failing to graduate from
college or being overlooked for a career advancement. Procrastination
leads to major life disappointments, so why do some people become
chronic procrastinators? Let’s consider why people do it and how they
can overcome this negative habit. Come to think of it, if you’re a
procrastinator, you can always read this article at a later time!
Procrastination is simply defined as a habitual tendency to postpone
some action or task that you need to do or should accomplish. Most
people who identify themselves as chronic procrastinators have a habit
of avoiding difficult situations. Let’s examine some of the reasons that
cause people to procrastinate.
Reasons for Procrastination
Fear and Anxiety: Procrastination is often triggered by the fear
and anxiety that you anticipate if you don’t accomplish a particular
task. Yet, when you procrastinate, you actually spend more time and
energy worrying about the dreaded negative outcome, than it would
actually take to accomplish your task.
Fear of Failure: Avoidance is triggered by an internal fear such
as, “What if I can’t handle the task?” or “What if I fail at it?”
Somehow, procrastinators believe that it is better to avoid than to try
and face the possibility of failing. Of course, the only real failure in
life is the failure to try.
The task is boring: None of us enjoy being bored, but the
procrastinator behaves as if boredom were a feeling worse than death!
Some times boredom comes from not wanting to deal with the routine
“details” that must be done to complete a complex task. This is a common
problem for people who suffer from Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD).
Unsure how/where to start: When a task or project is so big and
overwhelming, procrastination can function as a way to avoid making “the
wrong decision.” These people are chronic “worriers,” who are always
wondering, “what if…” This form of worrying can lead to paralysis.
Perfectionism: Some people believe procrastinators are simply lazy. Yet,
many times, they are afraid that they won’t be able to do something
perfect. This drive for perfection is what causes them to simply avoid
and “not do the task at all.”
Negative Beliefs: Negative thoughts such as, “ I can’t do this,”
are oftentimes behind the procrastinator’s refusal to start a task or
project. Negative self-beliefs create negative feelings of fear and
anxiety that inhibit one’s motivation to take action. When
self-confidence is low, we are less likely to push ourselves to attack a
difficult project.
Defiant personality style: Some people’s procrastination is fueled
by their difficulty with authority figures. These people resent and
resist doing tasks that they’re expected or suppose to do.
Need for a Crisis: These procrastinators love living on the edge. They
engage in the classic brinkmanship style of only getting motivated at
the absolute last minute. These are adrenaline junkies who believe they
function best under pressure.
Over doers are the type of procrastinator who has too much on their
plate, doesn’t prioritize well, and thus, has difficulty getting it all
done.
Effective Solutions
1. Divide and conquer: Break the task or project down into small,
concrete, specific steps. Complete one step at a time. Success will
build upon success, no matter how small.
2. Make Lists: Mark off each task you’ve completed. You’ll feel a
sense of accomplishment each time you cross off something that is
completed.
3. Acknowledge your fear: Take 10 minutes each morning to
actually acknowledge and experience your paralyzing fear of not
beginning or completing a project. Journal about your fear, or talk with
a trusted friend about it. Then imagine placing your fear in a safe
place and launch into the first step of completing the dreaded task.
4. Develop a personal reward system: Permit yourself to do
something you really enjoy ONLY after you’ve completed a manageable
portion of a task/project. Example: I will write this paper, and then I
will go to a restaurant for lunch. The pull of an instant gratification
will help push you towards a successful completion of the task/project.
5. Evaluate if the task is crucial: Ask yourself, “Must this task/
project be done?” as well as, “what if I don’t do this project? What is
the likely outcome?”
6. Assess your options: For instance, if you don’t like the task
you’re suppose to do, determine if you can swap the task with a
co-worker, spouse, friend, etc. We don’t have to like everything that we
do, but sometimes, what we personally dislike, someone else might
prefer.
In addition to the above suggestions, I believe Nike has offered the
best advice, yet: “Just Do It!” As many procrastinators know, the worse
agony comes from knowing that you are not addressing a crucial task.
Once you’ve convinced yourself to go ahead and tackle the task, you’ll
probably notice that the bulk of your anxiety diminishes.