Dr. Blume's Article of the Month
The Deadline Effect
By Ginger E. Blume, Ph.D.
How do you react when confronted with a deadline? Some
people dread having to meet a deadline, whether at work or in their
personal lives. For instance, a young man’s girlfriend pushes for an
answer, as she issues an ultimatum: “Either we get married now or we
break up. Which shall it be?”
Let’s explore how people respond differently to this common phenomenon
of feeling pressured to make decisions or complete a task in our
everyday lives.
The Deadline Resistor
Some people respond to externally imposed deadlines with stubborn
resistance. You know immediately if you fall into this category.
Deadline Resistors dig in their heels and refuse to budge forward when
someone else pushes for a work proposal to be handed in by a certain
date, a closet to be organized before the end of the weekend, to sample
a drug at a party before it’s all gone, etc.
This resistance strategy can work for or against you, depending on the
situation. It may prevent you from behaving in an impulsive manner, or
it could cause you to lose a last chance to participate in something
really important. In other words, this, like other strategies of
resistance that I’ll discuss, may represent a life-long pattern that has
a hit or miss effect. Clearly, when people have habitual patterns of
behaving, their responses will not always appear logical and won’t take
into consideration the actual situation they are facing.
The Deadline Welcomers
Let’s examine another style of reacting to a deadline. Some people
respond to deadlines issued by another person with “relief.” Deadline
Welcomers tend to have difficulty bringing closure to situations by
themselves. Hence, they welcome that ultimate push they require from
someone else to go ahead and commit to a final decision or action.
Without external pressure, they will avoid or procrastinate and easily
miss out on an important opportunity, even though they were actually
ready to jump on board, but only if someone gave them that final, and
necessary shove!
For instance, an employee may have done all of the research required for
a new product, but without a deadline to present her work, she doesn’t
bother to complete that crucial finishing touch and turn it into her
boss. Without external pressure, her boss doesn’t have a chance to see
the employee’s true potential. Sadly, this worker could be a real asset
to the company, but without the push she requires, no one will ever
know.
This Deadline Welcomer has a habit of obsessing and delaying until she
receives external pressure to display the fruits of her labor. If not
asked, she is out of luck! The Deadline Welcomer is what I call a
“sleeper”----they often surprise others when they’re required to
produce. Who would have guessed!
The Deadline Aficionados
There are others who feel positively challenged by a deadline. They are
eager to comply and they work toward the deadline as if it were their
own idea. In other words, to them, deadlines seem like a natural
approach to most of life’s challenges. Deadlines provide a boost of
energy to these folks.
These Deadline Aficionados are the type to either create their own sense
of urgency and/or welcome the structure that is provided by an
externally imposed deadline and use the pressure to steadily push
forward toward completion. They are highly goal oriented and motivated
for closure. In fact, they are driven for completion. They can’t wait to
close one door and open another.
While this approach may seem like an ideal one, it can have its
downside, too. Sometimes, the Deadline Aficionados are so eager to
finish something or make a final decision that they do so prematurely.
Imagine a laboratory technician who is anxious to provide lab results
for all the lab samples she has been given during the day before she
leaves the office. She hurries to finish all her work on time and makes
a critical mistake in a patient’s lab report.
Her desire for completion has caused her to be hasty and forget to
double-check her results. While her typical strategy may help her be the
superstar of the lab, she may also make a critical mistake that could
cost her the job. She must learn to balance her love of deadlines with a
habit to double check important items.
The Deadline Blinded
“What deadline? I didn’t hear about one? I’ll get it done when it’s
done.” These types of people turn a blind eye to the reality of
deadlines. They don’t seem to register a sense of urgency when
confronted with imposed deadlines and they certainly don’t create their
own. The pull of reality doesn’t seem to faze them. Maybe they’re great
at excuses; maybe they view life from the “slow lane,” maybe…. For
whatever reason, they can easily ignore what most of us can’t and
sometimes get away with it. But not without eventual consequences.
Deadlines: Good & Bad
In general, deadlines naturally create intensity for most of us. That
is, they cause adrenalin to flow as we feel the pressure of an impending
“due date.” But as you’ve seen in this article, people react differently
to deadline stress. Clearly, some folks need a deadline or they
endlessly delay; some people love the challenge; others buckle under the
weight; and others simply deny the impact and behave as if it was not a
reality that must be handled.
These various styles are neither good nor bad. It depends on the
situation and on you. As an individual, you need enough self-awareness
about your own style of reacting to deadlines (imposed by self or
others) so that you can learn various coping strategies for compensating
on your shortcomings. Your style can work for you or against you if you
have self-knowledge and effective coping strategies.
What’s Your Style?
Use this article to assess your personal style or typical reaction to
deadlines. While we all use various approaches, we also all have a
favorite or default style: a Deadline Resistor; a Deadline Welcomer; a
Deadline Aficionado; or A Deadline Blinder. By recognizing and
acknowledging your tendency, you can create an opportunity to gain more
control over yourself. Also, try to be cognizant of whether your style
changes when the deadline is self-imposed or imposed by others. This is
a key distinction for many people.
I also encourage you to consciously assess in a logical manner the best
way to handle future deadlines based on the circumstances of a
situation. Through self-knowledge, you can limit your typical knee jerk
reaction and weigh the costs and benefits of responding in various ways.
The more awareness you have, the more choice you will have over your
behavior. And by the way, there is no deadline for you to conduct this
self-assessment!